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How BDSM Can Enhance Your Sex Life and your “Real Life”

Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission, Sadism & Masochism (BDSM) is sometimes shortened for convenience sake to just “Bondage.” That is a gross oversimplification that threatens to pigeonhole BDSM into a “fringe” activity. Bondage (the act of restraining), after all, is just one small part of the wider world of BDSM.

At its core, BDSM simply acknowledges that taking on a role can be a path to unlocking a wider range of sexual experiences. For many, this can be liberating outside of the bedroom as well. For example, consider a man who is normally subdued in both his work life and sex life. If this man is given the opportunity to explore dominance in the bedroom, the result can be incredibly sexually exhilarating (for both partners) at the same time that it can positive spill-over effects outside the bedroom (for both partners). The man’s newly gained confidence in the bedroom could impact his relationship by restoring a certain balance, and may even lead to elevated status at work.

BDSM products are simply tools that can help you get deeper into your role, whatever it may be. For example, take the classic BDSM tool: handcuffs. When one partner puts a pair of handcuffs on, it can become easier for both partners to fulfill their “traditional” role, making the sex that much more exciting. Note that by switching who wears the handcuffs, it also becomes easier for both partners to play their “non-traditional” role, which can also be incredibly exciting. At the same time, when roles are switched in this manner, it brings the potential for one partner to gain clarity on the other partner’s feelings. This can have a positive impact on the couple’s relationship by improving empathy.

It’s important to understand that BDSM is far from being a fringe or “perverted” sexual practice. Never mind that most people really do have a wide range of fantasies, BDSM also includes simple things like tickling and – technically – merely dressing up slightly differently than you normally would. Integrating a “lite” BDSM toy like a satin mask or a body tickler may be all you need to bring your sex to the next level. Then again, some people will thoroughly enjoy liberal use of gags, cuffs, flogs, and sex slings. No matter what you’re into though, it’s of course, essential that both partners are fully on board.

By allowing participants to get deeper into their roles, BDSM tool can help us fulfill deep-seed sexual desires. When that happens it can be not only extremely liberating and sexually enjoyable, it can also – believe it or not – contribute to relationship stability.

In reality, BDSM should be seen as a path to experiencing a wider range of sexual sensations - and experiencing them more intensely than ever before. The tools used in BDSM are intended to accentuate the roles.

The most important things about BDSM is that it really hinges on mutual trust, mutual desire, and mutual understanding. Both partners should not be feeling pressured into doing it, and they should have their wants and desires respected at all times.

People have deep-seeded desires and that we naturally play roles in our sexual lives.

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